Hello, I’m Rebecca and welcome.
I started my own personal development and self-discovery journey around 13 years ago when I was living overseas and went through an unexpected breakup I moved back home to NZ. I felt lost, heartbroken and had many dark times following this. I felt like a failure but looking back this was the best thing that could have happened to me for multiple reasons, but most of all it lead me to starting my own personal development journey, and digging deep on how I was treating myself.
I have not always been the positive women I am today, I have had my share of challenges, but I would not be the person I am today without these. Looking back on these challenges I am so thankful I had every single one of them as I have gained lessons through them all. My personal development journey has evolved the past few years, when I decided to take it more seriously and invest in myself with a number of different coaches. This pivotal moment was when I noticed the most shift in my own personal growth.
Having multiple businesses, previously managing teams of staff, coaching and mentoring this has given me an insight into a variety of tools and techniques that I can’t wait to share with you.
I don’t have all the answers and I don’t expect you to either. I do care deeply about helping people in any way I can. I’m not perfect but I am a human who is on her own journey of self growth. Who is right there with you in a safe space where you can be empowered to find your own answers within.
I have a passion for personal development and am constantly learning new skills as I thrive on knowledge. I absolutely love helping people, watching them grow and holding space in a one to one session or in my group membership program.
More about my journey
My Life Coaching journey started during lockdown in October 2021, like many other’s during this time I had a lot of time to sit with my thought’s and this caused me to question “am I truly happy” and “is my life aligning with me”? I was drawn to life coaching and that is when I decided I wanted to learn more, I did my research and started to study Life Coaching. During this time I was working full time in the beauty industry, and I felt called to do more, help more people and also to contribute more to this world. As I have previously been managing salons for more than 16 years, this has given me an insight into coaching where I have learnt a variety of tools and techniques along the way.
I started my own personal development and self-discovery journey around 13 years ago when I was living overseas for a guy, but after a very unexpected breakup I moved back home to NZ. I felt lost, heartbroken (obviously) and felt like a failure but looking back this was the best thing that could have happened to me for multiple reasons, I realised I wasn’t actually happy with him and we weren’t right for each other, but most of all it lead me to personal growth.
My personal development journey has enabled me to grow in so many ways, but it has not been easy at times. Dealing with the grief from the sudden loss of my beloved dad, self-sabotage, toxic relationships, multiple infidelities, body dysmorphia from extreme weight loss, many self limiting beliefs, stories in my head, lack of self-trust, narcissistic abuse from previous relationship, fear of making the wrong decision, fear of what others think of me, overthinking situations, unhealthy attachments, not listening to my body, having no boundaries and people pleasing. However I would not be the person I am today if I had not of gone through this journey that has helped me re-build resilience.
The person I am now has boundaries and sticks to them and is not letting fear get in her way. Does not people please or self-sabotage, and most importantly loves herself unconditionally. This journey has given me the courage and confidence to start my own full time coaching business, move away from my family and friends where I know nobody and actually live the life that I deserve (we all deserve that)!
I am right there with you in a safe space where you can be empowered to find your own answers within. I am open minded, non-judgemental, open to learning and exploring possibilities.
What can I help you with.
I help guide you towards self-acceptance, self-leadership, self empowerment and self trust as the foundation for transformation. Helping you to accept what is, let go of what was and get out of your own head/way with the limiting beliefs or stories that you have been telling yourself for years!
Or perhaps you’re ready for an upgrade to the most authentic version of you and you’d like someone to hold you accountable to that standard, and provide you with tools to embody self-accountability, self-love, self-leadership, self-empowerment and self-trust?
Using practical and spiritual skills to guide you to help you set clear boundaries, repair self-love and self-trust, communicating in all areas of life, positive psychology , honouring your intuition, and removing any self sabotaging beliefs. If you are feeling stuck and don’t know what to do next I can help guide you to tackle these challenges in your life, so you can be the best version of yourself.
I believe coaching is one of the most valuable investments you can make in yourself. What better investment than an investment in yourself!
My favourite quote
“All that I seek is already within me”
- Louise Hay
A few fun facts about me
Travel Lover
I love travelling and some of my favourite oversea’s places that I have been are the Greek Islands, London, Paris, Switzerland and Italy. I have many other places on my do to list and I can’t wait to travel more in the future. I just love all the history and experiencing new cultures.
Outdoors is where you will find me
I love the outdoors, being in nature and by the water is where my soul shines. Hiking has become another outdoor activity I have been loving lately, and it is a great way to see more this beautiful country we live in.
Music and Dancing has my soul
Music and dancing is another thing that speaks to my soul, and you will find me dancing in my living room at any given time. Most people are surprised by the type of music I listen to which is hip hop and rnb. I have a new passion salsa dancing and I am hoping to take some lessons very soon. I actually spent most of my childhood - teenage years doing Jazz Ballet but stopped because I thought it was not cool anymore… silly silly
Makeup world
Beauty and Makeup has been a passion of my since I was young and I have spend 17 years in the beauty/makeup industry. I love being creative and expressing this through makeup. I do still offer Makeup services where I can as I love that creative side of it. I also own my own e-commerce lash brand (called Beauty Glow Up), which has been a great little side project for me, I really enjoy all aspect of the creating process in making the lashes.
Why is coaching different?
I guide people on how to feel empowered and take accountability for your life, helping you heal whats holding you back. I’m your tough love sister, who will hold you accountable and who can’t wait to see you succeed in all aspect of life.
My holistic approach means I address you as a whole, mind, body and soul. I get to the root of why you harbour the beliefs that are holding you back, and give you tools to feel self-trusting, self-loving, self-accepting and to take charge of your own life. My method will empower you to get your own personal power and spark back!
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